Four weeks to create a powerful shift in your love life so you can feel more secure, confident and magnetic and create momentum toward the healthy, committed relationship you want.
Depending on what we’re working through and what I believe will help you create the biggest shift during our session, we may use NLP, EFT tapping, mindset coaching, subconscious work, energetic work, dating strategy, or coaching around real-time situations happening in your love life.
We're focusing on what will help YOU make the shifts that lead to attracting a healthy relationship.
We’ll use our time together to actively work through whatever belief, fear, pattern, emotion, or block we’re focusing on so you can walk away from our session feeling lighter, clearer, and empowered
We will zoom in on what will move the needle specifically for your current situation and goals. It will be very personalized to you
This might include an EFT practice, mindset exercise, dating shift, journaling prompt, communication strategy, boundary, embodiment practice, or something else we identify specifically for you based on the session
"I was looking at this photo my friend Ron took yesterday and I can’t help thinking this is because of you— your trainings & work shifted me & the Universe to make this moment happen ♥️ thank you for supporting me Valerie
Back in 2020 I was DONE dating men who weren’t right for me. Valerie’s work supported me in calling in my King, but more than that it supported me in trusting myself & trusting the Universe.
2 years later: I’m about to go on an adventure to Africa & Europe with him and our friends. (Legit packing rn) I’ve attracted not only my soulmate but also a whole group of soul aligned friends."
-Gemma D., Actress & Spiritual Life Coach
We’ll look at where your love life is now, where you want it to be, and what may be getting in the way.
Together, we’ll identify the beliefs, patterns, behaviors, or blind spots that could create the biggest shift for you and begin the deeper work right away.
You’ll leave with greater clarity, an internal shift, and personalized action steps to start implementing immediately.
These sessions are personalized around what you need most and where we can create the most powerful movement for you.
That might mean shifting a belief, working through an anxious pattern, releasing attachment, strengthening self-trust, changing how you’re showing up with men, or coaching around something happening in your love life in real time.
We’ll use the tools that best support the shift including NLP, EFT tapping, mindset coaching, subconscious work, or deeper coaching.
We’ll continue the deeper work while also looking at what has shifted, what still wants your attention, and what will support you moving forward.
You’ll leave with clarity around your next steps, the practices to continue, and where your biggest opportunities for continued growth are.
My usual coaching packages are 3 months and start at $5k investment. There are two options for you to get private coaching for the next four weeks
Your 4-week private coaching experience includes:
$1,111
Everything included in Option 1 PLUS:
Investment: $2,222
Valerie Adams is a Board Certified NLP and EFT Coach who has been helping women transform their love lives since starting her coaching business in 2018.
Her work focuses on helping women create change from the inside out shifting subconscious beliefs, anxious patterns, self-doubt and dating habits so they can feel more secure, confident and empowered in love.
Through a blend of inner work, mindset coaching, EFT, NLP and practical dating guidance, Valerie helps women become a match for the healthy, emotionally available, committed relationship they truly want.
Absolutely, this is actually a perfect time to join. The Secure Love 1:1 Accelerator is designed to help you feel more confident, secure, and empowered in your love life while preparing you for a healthy relationship. You do NOT need to be actively dating or currently dealing with a specific relationship situation to benefit from the work.
We can use our time together to identify what may be holding you back, shift the patterns and beliefs that are no longer serving you, strengthen your standards and self-trust and help you feel prepared to date from a much more secure and empowered place.
As soon as you enroll, you’ll receive a welcome email from me with a private link to book your first 1:1 coaching session.
I recommend booking as soon as possible, as my coaching calendar tends to fill quickly.
Once your session is booked, you’ll receive a calendar confirmation with everything you need for our call.
No. You do not need to identify with a specific attachment style to join.
The Accelerator is personalized to you and your unique love life. We may work on things like confidence, self-trust, dating patterns, limiting beliefs, standards, boundaries, communication, emotional regulation, or navigating a current dating situation.
Anything happening in your love life that you want support around. That might include someone you’re currently dating, overthinking or anxiety, trouble trusting yourself, repeating patterns, difficulty maintaining standards or boundaries, fear around finding love or simply wanting clarity about what to focus on next. Our coaching is tailored to what will create the most meaningful shifts for you.
Yes you can absolutely join. If you’re currently dating someone, we can use your sessions to coach through real-time situations, communication, standards, boundaries, emotional triggers and whether the connection is actually aligned with the level of relationship you want.
No. The Secure Love 1:1 Accelerator is a coaching experience focused on personal growth, mindset, subconscious patterns, dating, relationships, and helping you move toward the love life you want. It is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or medical care.
