1. At least one specific internal shift
We’ll use our time together to actively work through whatever belief, fear, pattern, emotion, or block we’re focusing on so you can walk away from our session feeling lighter, clearer, and empowered
SECURE LOVE PRIVATE COACHING ACCELERATOR
Four weeks to create a powerful shift in your love life so you can feel more secure, confident and magnetic — and create momentum toward the healthy, committed relationship you want.
My private coaching packages are typically 3 months and start at $5k. For this special offer, I’m opening just 5 spots for a condensed 4-week experience.
I'm so readyImagine having four weeks of personalized support to:
- 💎Make the inner shifts to feel more confident, secure, and magnetic in your dating life
- 💎Get coaching on real-time dating situations so you can feel confident in how you navigate them and make dating feel fun and empowering
- 💎Learn the energetic + practical dating strategies that are working right now to attract high value men
- 💎Receive guidance to break through conscious and subconscious blocks so you can become more available for the emotionally available relationship you want
- 💎Elevate your standards, boundaries, and communication in dating so you attract a committed man and repel men who waste your time
- 💎Build deeper self-trust so you can stop second guessing yourself and feel confident in the choices you make in love
- 💎Shift the patterns that have been creating outcomes you DON’T want so you can start experiencing more of what you actually do want
The Secure Love 1:1 Coaching Accelerator is for you if...
- You’re ready to make significant shifts in your love life and you want personalized support helping you make it happen.
- You've may have some awareness around some of the patterns, fears, or beliefs you want to change... but you haven’t known how to actually change them.
- You know you want a different experience in your love life and you want expert eyes on your specific dating situations to help you see what will create the biggest shifts for YOU.
- You're at a place where you don't want to just consume more information and dating tips you see online and you're ready & willing to do the inner work that leads to attracting a healthy, committed relationship with an emotionally available man.
- You’re growth-minded, open, coachable and willing to show up for yourself in favor of creating the healthy relationship you want.
- You want someone in your corner helping you understand what’s coming up, guiding you through actually shifting it, and showing you how to apply those changes to your dating life so you can attract more of what you WANT in love
Inside The Secure Love Accelerator, Your coaching will be completely personalized to YOU
Depending on what we’re working through and what I believe will help you create the biggest shift during our session, we may use NLP, EFT tapping, mindset coaching, subconscious work, energetic work, dating strategy, or coaching around real-time situations happening in your love life.
We're focusing on what will help YOU make the shifts that lead to attracting a healthy relationship.
Every session, you’ll walk away with:
2. Clarity around what to focus on
We will zoom in on what will move the needle specifically for your current situation and goals. It will be very personalized to you
3. Personalized action steps to practice between sessions
This might include an EFT practice, mindset exercise, dating shift, journaling prompt, communication strategy, boundary, embodiment practice, or something else we identify specifically for you based on the session
CLIENT SUCCESSES:
"I was looking at this photo my friend Ron took yesterday and I can’t help thinking this is because of you— your trainings & work shifted me & the Universe to make this moment happen ♥️ thank you for supporting me Valerie
Back in 2020 I was DONE dating men who weren’t right for me. Valerie’s work supported me in calling in my King, but more than that it supported me in trusting myself & trusting the Universe.
2 years later: I’m about to go on an adventure to Africa & Europe with him and our friends. (Legit packing rn) I’ve attracted not only my soulmate but also a whole group of soul aligned friends."
-Gemma D., Actress & Spiritual Life Coach
The 4 Week Flow of Secure Love Accelerator:
SESSION 1: SECURE LOVE BLUEPRINT
We’ll look at where your love life is now, where you want it to be, and what may be getting in the way.
Together, we’ll identify the beliefs, patterns, behaviors, or blind spots that could create the biggest shift for you and begin the deeper work right away.
You’ll leave with greater clarity, an internal shift, and personalized action steps to start implementing immediately.
SESSIONS 2–3: BREAKTHROUGH + SHIFT
These sessions are personalized around what you need most and where we can create the most powerful movement for you.
That might mean shifting a belief, working through an anxious pattern, releasing attachment, strengthening self-trust, changing how you’re showing up with men, or coaching around something happening in your love life in real time.
We’ll use the tools that best support the shift including NLP, EFT tapping, mindset coaching, subconscious work, or deeper coaching.
SESSION 4: BREAKTHROUGH + INTEGRATION
We’ll continue the deeper work while also looking at what has shifted, what still wants your attention, and what will support you moving forward.
You’ll leave with clarity around your next steps, the practices to continue, and where your biggest opportunities for continued growth are.
CHOOSE YOUR LEVEL OF SUPPORT
My usual coaching packages are 3 months and start at $5k investment. There are two options for you to get private coaching for the next four weeks
💎 OPTION 1: SECURE LOVE PRIVATE COACHING ACCELERATOR (ONLY 5 SPOTS)
Your 4-week private coaching experience includes:
- 4 weekly 1:1 coaching sessions with me via Zoom (60 minutes)
- Personalized coaching based on what will help YOU create the biggest shift as well as coaching around real-time dating situations if needed
- NLP, EFT tapping, mindset coaching, subconscious work, energetic work + dating strategy depending on what you need
- Personalized action steps + practices between sessions
- Optional recordings of our sessions
$1,111 Paid in Full
💎 OPTION 2: SECURE LOVE PRIVATE COACHING ACCELERATOR — VIP (ONLY TWO AVAILABLE)
Everything included in Option 1 PLUS:
- 4 weeks of Monday-Friday private voice + text coaching support with me inside an app
- Bring me real-time dating situations, questions, triggers, breakthroughs, communication, boundaries, or anything else coming up between our sessions
- Get deeper support applying the shifts we’re making together to your actual dating life as it unfolds
Investment: $2,222 Paid in Full
About Your Coach:
Valerie Adams is a Board Certified NLP and EFT Coach who has been helping women transform their love lives since starting her coaching business in 2018.
Her work focuses on helping women create change from the inside out shifting subconscious beliefs, anxious patterns, self-doubt and dating habits so they can feel more secure, confident and empowered in love.
Through a blend of inner work, mindset coaching, EFT, NLP and practical dating guidance, Valerie helps women become a match for the healthy, emotionally available, committed relationship they truly want.
Secure Love Accelerator FAQ:
Q: What if I’m not dating anyone right now? Can I still join?
Absolutely, this is actually a perfect time to join. The Secure Love 1:1 Accelerator is designed to help you feel more confident, secure, and empowered in your love life while preparing you for a healthy relationship. You do NOT need to be actively dating or currently dealing with a specific relationship situation to benefit from the work.
We can use our time together to identify what may be holding you back, shift the patterns and beliefs that are no longer serving you, strengthen your standards and self-trust and help you feel prepared to date from a much more secure and empowered place.
Q: What happens after I sign up?
As soon as you enroll, you’ll receive a welcome email from me with a private link to book your first 1:1 coaching session.
I recommend booking as soon as possible, as my coaching calendar tends to fill quickly.
Once your session is booked, you’ll receive a calendar confirmation with everything you need for our call.
Q: Is this only for women with anxious attachment?
No. You do not need to identify with a specific attachment style to join.
The Accelerator is personalized to you and your unique love life. We may work on things like confidence, self-trust, dating patterns, limiting beliefs, standards, boundaries, communication, emotional regulation, or navigating a current dating situation.
Q: What can I bring to our coaching sessions?
Anything happening in your love life that you want support around. That might include someone you’re currently dating, overthinking or anxiety, trouble trusting yourself, repeating patterns, difficulty maintaining standards or boundaries, fear around finding love or simply wanting clarity about what to focus on next. Our coaching is tailored to what will create the most meaningful shifts for you.
Q: What if I’m already dating someone?
Yes you can absolutely join. If you’re currently dating someone, we can use your sessions to coach through real-time situations, communication, standards, boundaries, emotional triggers and whether the connection is actually aligned with the level of relationship you want.
Q: Is this therapy?
No. The Secure Love 1:1 Accelerator is a coaching experience focused on personal growth, mindset, subconscious patterns, dating, relationships, and helping you move toward the love life you want. It is not a substitute for therapy, mental health treatment, or medical care.